Hi John what's going on?
I got up this morning and went to the 9:00 am Mass at St. Agnes.
It was unique because it turned out to be a funeral for John Matthews.
Have you ever gone to a funeral for someone you did not know?
Mr. Matthews was a great man, one of twelve kids . He was a paratrooper in WWII in the Pacific .
He returned home married and went into the banking business, raising three kids of his own.
He became a widower fifteen years ago and was his 4 grandkids biggest fan. He sang, danced and loved a good party. He enjoyed strolling the Long Beach board walk and would tip his hat to each lady he passed.
He attended the 7:00 am service each Sunday and will be very much missed by his family and friends.
I will also miss this man, even though I never met him or his family. Is that possible?
Is it possible to remember an ordinary man that you have never met?
It's more than just remembering a story is it not ?
Why was this man introduced to me at his own funeral on a Saturday morning, March 15, 2014 his name being John?
Jay, I think you have a greater appreciation for him because he was from the greatest generation that ever lived. He epitomizes the generation we believe selflessly sacrificed so much. They will forever be emblazoned in our minds as those WWII soldiers that said gosh and golly while they trudged through jungles and deserts saving the world. Hollywood depicts modern soldiers as a little more jaded.
Also John Matthews loved his family and was loved by his family. Not much different than you my friend.
Hmm. Now they are truly great answers to my questions. I believe I was attracted to the goodness of this person and happy to be part of his farewell even though by accident. His life a reminder to us all how to live with hope, love, faith and dignity. Have a great day John, thanks.
You too, Jay